THIS Is What it Actually Takes to Have a Happy Relationship | Tom Bilyeu on Women of Impact

The truth about happy long lasting relationships and marriages is that most times, couples don’t know how they survive, but in hindsight they can see what worked and what didn’t. Tom and Lisa have been thriving together for over 20 years. Through many trials and errors they have found the secret to building a healthy and lasting relationship. Lisa takes Tom through several topics they formulated 26 hardcore questions around that keep the love strong and the relationship focused on what matters. In their experience, thriving together has looked like telling each other hard truths, handing over their insecurities and vulnerabilities to each other in exchange for a beautiful shared life experience. SHOW NOTES: Desire | Tom shares why understanding your partner’s changing wants over time is critical [0:55] Perfect Day | Toms reveals what a perfect day would be if Lisa was down for anything [4:31] Speak Up | The importance of letting your partner know what makes you happy [6:00] Setup for the Win | How to set your partner up for the win and being happy[10:34] Trust | Tom discusses what total trust looks like for a healthy thriving relationship [12:33] Broken Trust | Tom and Lisa discuss ways to open up again after trust is broken [18:57] Insecurities | The importance of never using your partner insecurities to hurt them [23:17] Irreversible | Lisa shares 3 major things that can’t be taken back in healthy relationship [26:21] Hard Truth | Asking your partner the one trait they want in a partner, you don’t have [32:00] Reconsidering | Ask the hard question, what would make you reconsider the relationship [41:10] Disruptors | Lisa and Tom break down how to pattern interrupt big arguments [44:29] Check out the deals from our sponsors: Athletic Greens: Go to https://athleticgreens.com/lisa and receive a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 free travel packs with your first purchase! InsideTracker: insidetracker.com/womenofimpact Blinkist: Go to https://blinkist.com/woi Try it FREE for 7 days and save 25% off your new subscription. Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices