Kids behaviour - Are You On The Same Page?

⁠GET THE FULL TRANSCRIPT⁠ - https://s3.membervaultcdn.com/theresilientpeople/Transcript---Kids-Behaviour.pdf?v=1695221070 Welcome to another episode of The Resilient Kid Podcast! In this episode, Ashley Costello, a psychotherapist with over 25 years of experience, delves into the fascinating topic of children's behavior and the impact of differing parenting styles. Ashley begins by sharing her personal experience of navigating parenting with her husband, highlighting their varying approaches to discipline and routines. She discusses how their diverse family backgrounds and upbringing shaped their parenting perspectives. The episode emphasizes the importance of parents aligning their expectations and understanding the type of behavior they want to encourage or discourage in their children. Ashley introduces a practical exercise to help parents get on the same page regarding family values and boundaries. Key Takeaways from the Episode: Understanding Differences: Recognize that parents often have different parenting styles based on their upbringing, and that's okay. Compromise is Key: Finding common ground and compromise is essential when parents have differing views on parenting. Clear Communication: Use the "Want, Needs, and Non-Negotiables" exercise to clarify what behaviors you want to encourage, what is essential, and what is non-negotiable in your family. Non-Negotiables: Identify non-negotiable rules that both parents agree on to maintain consistency in parenting. Adaptability: Children are adaptable, and clear rules and boundaries help them feel secure. Include Children: Involve children in discussions about family values and acceptable behaviors to help them understand the rules better. Grandparents' Role: Be clear about your non-negotiable rules even when children visit grandparents to maintain consistency. The episode concludes with Ashley's reminders about her upcoming book, "The Parent's Guide to Raising a Resilient Kid," and the waitlist for "The Resilient Teen Book" and "The Teen Coaches." She also mentions the resources available on the Resilient Academy website. Useful Links Sign up to our newsletter: https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/240667/93026367927485942/share Waitlist for “The Resilient Teen Book”: https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/240667/99191751839844341/share Waitlist for "The Teen Coaches": https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/240667/99186184125678667/share Social Links Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/resilientkiduk Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theresilientkid/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/resilientkid/ Pinterest: https://za.pinterest.com/resilientacademy/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@theresilientkid957 Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ashley-costello Website: https://www.theresilientacademy.co.uk/ Remember, clear communication and compromise are essential in creating a harmonious parenting environment. Thanks for tuning in to The Resilient Kid Podcast! If you enjoyed this episode, please consider subscribing for more valuable insights on building resilience in children.