051: Understanding Communication with Men & Breaking Negative Cycles with My Client Tori Neal
This week I'm joined by a wonderful client of mine, Tori Neal! Tori is an incredible woman who took part in my Communicating with Men and Intimately Yours courses and was kind enough to let me dive back in and celebrate her journey and process and see how she’s getting on now. We of course get into her previous struggles in trusting her partner, the built-up resentment she felt and working through major disconnection issues, but we make sure to celebrate every single win! Tori went from wanting sex but getting too caught up in her thoughts, feeling too tired or uninterested or that the mood wasnt right, to both her and her husband barely being able to keep their hands off each other all day. We share so many beautiful moments in this episode from stepping into your feminine energy instead of constantly viewing everything as a problem to be solved, the HUGE differences in how men and women are wired and the effects this had on Tori’s marriage, her appreciation for the sisterhood in her work with me and how this allowed her to feel more safe and vulnerable to work through her personal healing journey. WHAT ELSE WE’RE TALKING ABOUT: ✺ Tori’s experience of working with me and how helpful she found the tools and insights to take her marriage to the next level ✺ The flame to reigniting the joy in Tori’s marriage again ✺ Finding her feminine energy again and allowing herself to say yes to her husband wanting to take control and do the sweetest (and hottest!) things for her ✺ Letting herself receive and ENJOY gifts and gestures from her husband ✺ Learning the differences between how women and men’s brains are wired and how this can majorly impact communication ✺ How expressing your resentments and built-up emotions will always be messy and there’s just no escaping that (it’s a tough one to hear I know) ✺ The power of being inside a container filled with women experiencing the same as you and how that enables you to be truly honest with yourself and your needs and desires ✺ That understanding your erotic blueprint is a huge step in reigniting a sexual relationship, and even though they may not perfectly align, it doesn’t mean you’re doomed to have mediocre sex! ✺ Truly understanding the phrase “Men want to make us happy” and how this can open infinite doors of opportunity, passion, intimacy and more in your relationship ✺ The importance of appreciation, especially in Tori’s relationship and how that was the key to breaking free from the negative cycle of closing herself off to her needs and desires ✺ That it’s essential to know that little hiccups and bumps in the road are part of and important to healing and revitalizing your relationship and doesn’t mean it’s time to give it all up Watch the Communicating with Men Workshop Here: https://www.kelleymbode.com/offers/Zj86tLob Connect with me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelleymbode Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelley.bode.90 Twitter: https://twitter.com/kelleybode