047: Feminine Surrender, Self Trust, Deep Healing Work and New Love With My Client, Lena
This week I’m hosting an amazing client of mine, Lena on the podcast!! Lena is a very special client, an artist, a believer in the energetics of love and life, a deep thinker and she’s also big on Human Design. So, naturally her reflections on our work together get real! We’re talking about so many beautiful things, like really leaning into desire and TRUST and surrender, and how things absolutely always work out - even if we have no idea in the moment how that’s going to happen. Lena talks through what her coaching experience was like with me and all of the ways it helped her to really transform on so many levels. She spent most of her life in her masculine energy: being the doer, the decider, the one who gets things done, and she talks about how she learned to really integrate her feminine energy even more. We talk about the baby steps that Lena took that meant that her dating experiences got more and more aligned every time. We’re also talking about how deeply connected successful dating and living the life you want to live are. The energy of really being deeply connected to ourselves and how that can literally change everything in our lives, not just the way we show up in dating or in our relationships - but of course these things naturally change dramatically, too. We’re also talking about: ✹ Lena’s “missing piece” when it came to relationships before we worked together (listen to the end for this one) ✹ Being confronted with all of your core fears: fear of being rejected, fear of abandonment, fear of being vulnerable, fear of being really seen - and how it’s all a catalyst to growth. ✹ How owning and integrating our darkness and the parts where we have pain is the key to realising the things we really desire ✹ The power of good coaching, and not having to sit and suffer alone with the things you’re working through ✹ The lived experience of “there are no good men around me” and how this was an unhelpful belief for Lena and how she worked to change that story for herself (which then changed her reality) ✹ Learning how to love where you’re at and being OK with how you feel and who you are and how your life is right now in this moment ✹ Noticing and acknowledging the way the masucline is showing up in your life and appreciating and learning to love them, even if you’re not dating them ✹ Asking for what you want, letting yourself be seen and being in your feminine energy ✹ The experience she’s had since we’ve worked together: men treating Lena like a queen! ✹ How she’s now in the sweetest, most loving and caring relationship now and it’s different to anything she’s ever experienced ✹ We’re even talking about how they met, their first date and how he did something really cute that made her feel seen and recognized and really taken care of Connect with Lena: Instagram: @lena.maria.dutzi https://www.instagram.com/lena.maria.dutzi/ Connect with me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelleymbode Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelley.bode.90 Twitter: https://twitter.com/kelleybode