043: Initiating Intimacy with Megan Lambert
Megan is a master-certified intimacy and desire expert. She’s helped hundreds of people around the world experience more love, better sex, and clearer desires through her retreats, group programs, and private coaching. Previously, she was a senior leadership consultant to Fortune 100 companies. Now, she lives in Bali with her husband, two puppies and their baby girl. In this episode we’re talking about initiating sex and what to do when you hear a “no”. We talk deep into the beautiful story of how Megan met her now husband, James, and how they manage the feminine / masculine dynamics of their relationship, keeping the fire alive between them while parenting and running a business together. WHAT ELSE WE’RE TALKING ABOUT: ✹ Initiating sex with your words versus initiaing sex with your body (and what to do when you hear a “no”) ✹ Non-verbal connection with your partner and letting them feel you (and how hot this can be) ✹ Feeling the sensation of your own turn-on and embodying that desire so that you are more open to intimacy and sex more often ✹ Accepting all of those unhelpful stories: “am I good enough?”, “do I look supid?”, “is he going to reject me?” as perfectly normal and human and moving past them with grace for yourself ✹ Focusing on YOU and your own enjoyment in the build up to intimacy ✹ Sharing your internal experiences with your partner and using that as another beautiful opportunity to connect ✹ The subtle nuances of feminine communication and what that means in leadership / as a leader (contrary to what we are always told about having a core feminine energy and being a leader) ✹ The dance between the feminine expressing her desire and the masculine responding to that desire with a solution or a plan ✹ We don’t have to speak in a feminine way all the time, this is NOT the 1950s (and that’s not what this work is about). This is simply about leaning into the energy that feels more natural to you while allowing yourself to also experience the full expression of both the masculine and feminine energies within you. Join Dating for Love: https://www.kelleymbode.com/dating-for-love Connect with me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelleymbode Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelley.bode.90 Twitter: https://twitter.com/kelleybode