Survival of the Kindest: Fritzi Horstman - Forgive yourself

CW: Abuse, Adverse Childhood Experiences, TraumaTranscript available here on our websiteFritzi Hortsman’s life turned around when she started to learn about trauma, and adverse childhood experiences. The insight into something which had flavoured her entire life, and the ability to now address this that that had laid dormant and unacknowledged for so long, also formed part a great compassionate drive and inspiration to start the Compassion Prison’s Project. Fritzi’s understanding that we can be almost exclusively shaped by adverse childhood experiences, and that this is far more present in society that we would care to admit, coincided with her visiting a prison for the first time. Instead of seeing what we are trained to see, (ne’er-do-wells) she saw kindred spirits. Fellow human’s also suffering, also weighed down, also living in a state of constant fear created by the experience of many great traumas. Her work has allowed so many to access emotions for so many men and women who are suffering imprisonment, to find forgiveness for themselves so that they can move beyond living in the moment of trauma that they are in. Her extraordinary film Step Inside the Circle shows how the impact of trauma shapes our society, how many of those we imprison are actually some of the most traumatised people, and that becoming a trauma aware culture has unlimited transformational potential. Mentioned in the Episode:Fritzi Hortsman TwitterCompassion Prison Project Website Twitter DONATEStep Inside the CircleThe Defiant Ones Trailer Hustle 2.0 - A Mail Based Correspondence Program For Incarcerated PeopleJohn Kabat-ZinnThe Body Keeps the Score - Bessel van der KolkThe Presence Process - Michael BrownThomas HüblVincent Feletti, Robert Ander research (ACE and adult health)The Aspen Institute - WeaveABCD Institute started by John McKnightJulian Abel can be found on TwitterFollow Survival of the Kindest on Twitter, Instagram and subscribe on Apple, Spotify or wherever you like to listen to get our episodes as they are released. Email us [email protected]

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We are all learning how to keep kindness at the forefront of our daily interactions, how connecting with others can keep loneliness at bay, and how compassionate communities are emerging all over the world. The new podcast ‘Survival of the Kindest’ comes out of the international compassion movement that puts kindness at the heart of our lives, our towns, and our healthcare. Expert in compassionate communities and former palliative care doctor, Julian Abel, welcomes specialists each week to discuss the many ways to have a long and happy life.