39. Lacey heals her rejection wound + listener questions

Do you ever feel like there’s something that wants to come out during sex? Frustration? Confusion? Sadness? Have you ever felt shy or even shame when referring to your own body parts? And what about this; have you ever had an unhealed wound from childhood come out of absolute fucking nowhere in the form of pure rage? If you’re reading this (and being honest with yourself), you’re likely nodding your head and saying YES to at least one of those.  In this episode, we’re answering a couple of listener questions about crying after orgasm, leaning into the emotions that may come up during sex, and taking back ownership of words like “pussy” and “cock.” We’re also having quite the deep and meaningful conversation exploring a very recent event in our lives that resulted in Lacey throwing Flynn’s pillow off the bed (yup, he’s back in the big bed!) and eventually healing her childhood rejection wound. Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to learn how to reclaim ownership of stereotypical porn words and the importance of noticing and fully stepping into your emotions. Oh, and in case you missed it, we were recently featured in an article in The Guardian, and you should definitely go and check it out! And keep the questions coming! Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/39-rejectionwound  If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass! Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started. Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship. Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.