16. Uncovering the True Obstacles to Achieving Your Biggest Desires

Many people, especially women, tend to tie their worth and happiness to achieving certain goals or outcomes, whether it's in relationships, money, or their bodies. This leads to a punishing and controlling mindset, which can be detrimental. The key is to detach your worth from these goals and learn to feel worthy, loved, and validated right now. While it's fine to have goals, the path to achieving them should be driven by self-love and self-acceptance, making the journey much more manageable and fulfilling. - 00:01 Women often assign fulfilment to certain outcomes, like being in a relationship or achieving financial goals. - 03:10 This pattern can lead to controlling, punishing, and manipulating ourselves to reach those goals. - 06:13 It's important to realise this pattern and not attach our self-worth to achieving these goals. - 09:08 Detach from the idea that achieving these goals defines your worth; instead, give yourself love and acceptance unconditionally. - 11:58 Focus on self-love and inner worth while working towards your goals, without assigning your entire validation to their achievement. Feminine Energy Mastery with Roksana Brzostek **  WORK WITH ME  https://linktr.ee/roksanabrzostek ** FREE FB COMMUNITY https://www.facebook.com/groups/3176677885756370 ** ONLINE COURSES https://roksanabrzostek.thinkific.com/courses/ FEM: Become a self actualised woman.