EP240 Fertility Success Principle #8: Better Not Bitter

Are you bitter about some things your fertility journey has tossed your way? In this episode I'm going to teach you why bitter creates BLOCKS to your baby and HOW you can focus on BETTER instead. It's what women who beat the odds do. If you even suspect you might be a Bitter Bee, turn this one up. Want the journal page that goes with this episode? CLICK HERE Transcript: Hey Gorgeous. If you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, fertility mindset master, former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist. I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey. It's time to get fearless, baby. Fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile podcast, episode 240. Fertility success principle number eight, better, not bitter. Hey, my loves. I'm so excited to be back with you this week, talking about something really important. It's actually also. Me picking up with the Fertility Success Principles series that we have been working on throughout the lifetime of this podcast. And I left off at Fertility Success Principle number seven. And that was some time ago because we've been doing, I mean, we've just had so many interviews with so many of my Miracle Mamas. So many really cool expert interviews and episodes on the smart mama moves. That I wanted to bring us back to a really cool bread and butter concept of what are the fertility success principles on this journey. Now, having coached women to fertility success, like as of my calendar watch right now, about nine years, There is a consistent through line and women ask me all the time, you know, what makes my ladies so successful because you will see and hear women on this podcast from so many walks of life, physicians, lawyers, teachers, nurses. Engineers, women, uh, with many different kinds of advanced degrees from all over the world, many different life experiences, you know, and so what is it that unites them? That's really what I'm talking about when we are digging into the fertility success principles. And this one that I want to share with you this week, number eight, better not bitter, is actually a really critical one because this journey is unlike anything else, and I'm not telling you anything new in making that statement, but I'm simply The Underscoring a reality that I think not a lot of people have a firm grasp on we tend to get upset when when things on this journey don't go in logical linear lockstep that, you know, we have experienced in other aspects of our lives, you know, professionally, we, you know, you study this number of years, you take this test, you get this degree, it's it's it's It's more predictable, but when we're living this journey, look, we are dealing with the fucking miraculous. Not everything is going to be predictable, and frankly, count on it not being predictable. And developing the ability to be better, not bitter when things don't work out is a critical aspect of that resilience and, and that strength that you hear in all these women on the podcast, because what they did Essentially, whether they would call it this or not was ultimately what they did. They decided to be better not bitter. And at this point in the podcast, 240 episodes deep, you have heard quite a few diverse stories upon which to draw from that you can see that what I'm sharing with you is true. So, let's talk about better,