EP230 Have You DECIDED To Be A Fertility Success?

What if you did the unthinkable and just DECIDED that you would succeed on this journey? Most women run from the thought of calling their shots like that, but here's the deal, YOU aren't most women. There is power in decision, so let's help you unleash it. This one is for true fertility journey radicals! Transcript: Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist. I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey. It's time to get fearless, baby, fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile podcast, episode 230. Have you decided to be a fertility success story? Hey, my loves, I'm so excited to be here with you this week, because I got something a little radical for you. And maybe it might not seem terribly radical if you've been listening to the 220 plus episodes that we have for the Fearlessly Fertile podcast. But I want to zero in on an element of this subject that I think kind of gets lost in the mix. And you know how I feel about decision. Decision is everything on this journey. Making a very clear decision about what you want, making a decision about how you want to be with your partner, decisions about, you know, what you want to invest in, decisions about what your next steps are. There are a zillion and five decisions that we make on this journey, but there's one that very often gets overlooked because it's a pretty fucking scary decision. And that is the decision to be successful. So let's talk about this because I came across a really cool quote that I wanted to share with you when I was thinking about this topic. And it is by William Hutcheson Murray, a Scottish mountaineer. And it goes like this. Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, but the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issue from the decision raising. In one's favor, all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings, and material assistance, which no one could have dreamed would have come their way. See, it all starts with a decision, mama. When we decide that we're going to be successful on this journey, the universe then starts to conspire in our favor, because a decision is not just A mere preference. It is definitive. I have made the decision to be successful. Have you done that? Have you really done that on this journey? And look, it, you know, some people really value, you know, key. Well, I want to keep my options open, but here's the thing. When you've decided to be successful, that doesn't mean your options aren't open. It just means you've decided to be successful because you can make the decision to succeed on this journey and still be surrendered to the outcome. I don't know how or I don't know when this baby's coming, but I know this baby is coming. There's nothing unsurrendered about that. And when you really take this in, you can see the difference that making a decision to be successful on this journey can make. Because if you're like, well, I hope it happens. I mean, hope is not a strategy and hope is not enough. Same with positivity. You know, people think when you talk about mindset, you're talking about being positive.