EP227 Are You Overcomplicating Your Journey?

As lovably Type A, professional, go-getting, big hearted women with a tendency toward list-making and perfectionism, is it possible you are OVERCOMPLICATING things? Find out in this juicy, perhaps long overdue episode. Can't say Mama doesn't love you. Transcript: Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist. I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey. It's time to get fearless baby, fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 227. Are you overcomplicating your journey? Hey, my loves, in this super bite sized, just get to the point because I love you and it's a holiday week episode, I want to zero in on something really important, and it's probably a question that you haven't been asked in a really long time, and it was kind of given away in the title, but I'm gonna ask it here now anyway. Are you overcomplicating your journey? Now, I know for all of my lovably type A, control freaky, do extraordinary shit with a tendency of list making imperfectionism ladies, The idea of over complicating anything is probably like, What, Roseanne? What the fuck are you talking about? I don't over complicate things. I just like things done right. Right? So I'm asking this question with love. Because one of the things that I see women do all of the time, which is a really, it's insidiously powerful. It's an insidiously powerful tool that our saboteurs use. And that is overcomplicating shit, right? So I want you to ask this week, you know, it's, it's a 4th of July holiday this week, maybe you've taken the week off, maybe you're traveling, maybe you're listening to this shit at an airport or As you and your partner are driving off to some beautiful vacation house or whatever it is that you're doing to celebrate America's independence from tyranny. Although some may say that we're in a tyranny now, but I digress. But I want you to ask yourself, are you overcomplicating your journey? And I like to look at this in the many different facets our journey can have. You know, our journey isn't just, you know, trying to get pregnant. Our journey is comprised of, as I said, multiple facets. It includes our relationship with ourselves, our relationship with our partner. Our relationship with our bump squad, which includes our treatment team, our coaches, our nutritionists, our acupuncturist, all that stuff. Then it also includes other people, right? You know, people on the periphery, our friends, family. You know, other people that you're, you know, calling in to help you on this journey, like, where are you overcomplicating shit, you know, and it's interesting because the way that we sabotage with overcomplication is it gets us into a place where. Instead of taking the kind of bold action that can make a difference on this journey, it has us sit and spin in garbage, agonizing over details that don't fucking matter. Okay? In the end, these details don't matter. What actually matters is getting to the bottom line of what you want. So where on your journey are you over complicating shit? And so You can start looking at this from the perspective of what really sucks on my journey, right? Like, what feels hard, right? Like, let's zero in on just one thing because it's,