EP126 Is The BIG LIE Blocking Your Baby?

We walk around through our daily lives thinking that the way things are, is the way it “has to be.” The same is true for the internal rules we live by—especially on this journey. The truth is, most of that sh*t is completely made up and given to us by people who had no idea they were making it up. I’m teaching you how to identify the BIG LIE and how to start doing something about it. Transcript: Hey, gorgeous. If you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist. I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey. It's time to get fearless baby, fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile podcast. Episode 126 is The Big Lie Blocking Your Baby. Loves, I am coming to you super quick this week because I was inspired while walking on the beach in Miami, and I said to myself, I am asking myself this question, and I've got to ask this question and pose it to my ladies. Because, look, we are walking around It, and I know it's going to sound crazy, but you're just going to have to run with me on this. So many of us are living by lies in our daily life. Somebody at some time told us that this is the way shit's done, and this is the way it's got to be, and we just sort of accept it. You know, we can go decades in this life without ever stopping to question the way we think and the way that we do things. And I know you might be thinking, Roseanne, you've been out and getting way too much sunshine, way too much vitamin D, that salt air is finally collected between your ears, and you've gone crazy. But, you know, I mean, you could think that if you want. Or, you could take the wisdom of somebody who's probably about 20 paces ahead of you, and take the time and say, why is this woman asking me this question right now? Could there be something in it for me? And so that's what I'm hoping that you're going to do, because there is something truly special that happens And freedom, baby, freedom that is available to us when we can stop and ask simple questions like why do I think this way? Why do I think it has to be done this way? Could another way be just as equally valid? You know, a lot of times we just get pissed in our lives. We get pissed at people, we get pissed at systems, we get pissed at the general world around us. It's just because. Things aren't the way that we think they should be. And I know that as women on this journey, we get really caught up in, Oh my gosh, I'm not as far along as I should be. Other people are having their babies. I'm being left behind. Uh, you know, that thing is too expensive for me. I'm never going to be a mom. So, It all comes down to this, and this is a very simple question, and the only assignment that you have this week is to sit and ask yourself this question thoughtfully and thoroughly, okay? Don't just, you know, think about this question in passing. You spending, I don't know, five minutes thinking about this question could be a critical turning point on your journey. Because look, I mean, I did it myself. We spend years on this journey, kinda sleepwalking, and just sort of accepting things. And if you think about the interviews that you have heard from the women in my Fearlessly Fertile community over the past couple weeks, There was Kate, there was Dr. Caroline,