EP110 Not “Seeing” Results? Know This.

Frustrated by “doing all the things” and not seeing any evidence that your baby is on the way? Let me teach you a massive shift in perspective that will yank you right out of the pit of despair, every time. Getting this universal truth in your bones could be the difference between victory and defeat. Yes, it is that important. Transcript: Hey gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist. I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey. It's time to get fearless baby, fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, Episode 110. Not seeing results? Know this. Asher, how was your day today? Um, it was great. I loved to play with Mackenzie, Waylon, myself, and you and daddy. You and daddy and Tibbs and Shreddy. And so is yours. Tell us what you did today at school. I did paint a flag. Actually, I painted a kite. What color was the kite? And it was red. Are you excited about flying it? No, it's just made out of paper. So you don't want to fly it? Actually, we can go buy a kite. And, um, we can fly everywhere we want to go. What, what do you like about kites? Um, I like to fly them, fly my kite. And that is it. Okay, mommy's going to do the podcast now. You want to say bye to the ladies? Um, bye ladies. Hey loves, the podcast was hijacked by Asher Douglas. So we are going to get back to our regularly scheduled programming. Just giving you a little tidbit of what you have to look forward to. Man, I can't wait for you guys to email me, text me, DM me, and tell me about all of this great stuff when your baby gets here. Because you know what? You're on this journey because this desire in your heart is there because it was meant for you. So, let's get on with this week's topic. So, are you guys ready for more awesome this week? And I hope so, because this week's conversation is a badly needed one. One of the things that can knock us off our game on this journey is the cycle of doing quote unquote all the things and not seeing the result we want. In the fast food, get it to me in 30 minutes without me having to get out of bed, listen to double speed culture we live in, we seem to have lost touch with the fact that there is an inherent process between desire and the manifestation of that which we desire. This disconnect with reality can lead to shiny object syndrome, irritability, jealousy, endless comparison, and at worst, flat out giving up on our dreams. No bueno. There is so much I can tell you about this situation that my head feels like it will explode. So I believe that the smartest place to start teaching you what to do and another perspective on what to do when you're not seeing the results that you want to see is To start with one of the wisest quotes I have ever read when it comes to frustration when we are not seeing the quote unquote result we desire. As Price Pritchett so aptly puts it, absence of evidence is not evidence of their absence. In this context, Mr. Pritchett was talking about resources for achieving the thing that we desire. He's talking about relying on the unseen forces all around us that are conspiring in our favor. Yes, whether you believe me in this moment or not, there are forces conspiring in your favor. Call them what you want,