EP101 The Mantra To End All Mantras

If you are comparing yourself to every pregnant woman you see, freaking out over how long you’ve been on your journey, or are losing faith in your baby ever getting here, I am going to teach you a SIX word mantra that can keep you focused on the truth. You were meant to be a Mom! Transcript: Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist. I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey. It's time to get fearless baby, fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, Episode 101, The Mantra to End All Mantras. Hey loves, I am so excited to be here with you this week. And, oh, I gotta tell ya, this week's episode is truly divine inspiration. And it comes from, you know, I was asking myself, What do I want to share with the ladies this week? What is something that I could really toss their way to get them thinking and and really looking at their thoughts and beliefs and I was inspired by one of the ladies in my fearlessly feral method program and It's this so most of us like from a very young age. We are thrust into a culture of comparison Like from the minute you probably remember that, you know, there was somebody telling you, Oh, you're, you're the tallest kid in the class or you're the youngest kid in the class or, you know, How come you can't be as quiet as your brother or you know? Susie Q over there is an excellent dancer. Why don't you work on your tap dancing a little more or whatever, you know? We all experience a sense of comparison very early on in our lives whether it's well intentioned or not We are always looking at other people for a measure of where we are in the spectrum of success, whatever that success may be. And while there is no question that there is value in looking at where we fall in the spectrum of things, you know, just as a data point, the problem becomes when we give all of our sense of self worth, all of our value, And we place way too much authority in the quote, unquote, spectrum in the quote, unquote, measure. Right? Like, so let me make this even more simple is, you know, when we aren't consciously aware or consciously asking, well, whose measure is that? And what is that measure based on? We can find ourselves handing all of our sense of self worth, all of our power over to a measure that doesn't even apply to us. So let's look at some other examples to make this idea even more clear, right? Like so many of us grew up with these ideas that, Oh, you know, if I'm not married by 30, you know, then, and, and very quickly after that, get a house and then start having kids and, and get my kids into soccer and, you know, get a promotion at work. Like we have this idea that things are supposed to happen in a certain way. And if you, they don't happen in that way, that there's something wrong with us. Right, you know, and there's also like we even do this as women when it comes to our concepts of beauty, right? We say oh, well, you know if this if I don't look a certain way or my body's of a different type then I'll just have to settle for being quirky or an unconventional beauty and other crazy shit like that. I mean Think about that example unconventional beauty. Well, who the fuck wants to be conventional is boring, right?