43. How to build chemistry on dates (and stop chasing sparks!)

We need to stop chasing sparks in dating! Just because you don't feel a spark does not mean that connection is doomed. In this episode, I talk about what the spark is and what it isn't, and why we feel attracted to some people and not others. I focus heavily on tips for building chemistry in early dating, but with the caveat that chemistry alone can't carry a long-term relationship. That's where compatibility comes in.  Slide into my DMs on IG: @dating.intentionally Read the blog: intentionally.dating  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices