Brian and Judson hookup with Dr. Evan Goldstein and talk all about butts–from gaining confidence as a bottom to protecting the prostate to anal botox, to the dos and don’ts of douching

Brian and Judson are joined by the leading anal health expert in the United States, Dr. Evan Goldstein. Dr Goldstein is the founder of Future Method, makers of science-backed sex toys and other anal sex products; he’s the author of Butt Seriously: The Definitive Guide to Anal Health, Pleasure, and Everything In Between; and he’s one of the few surgeons in the world whose practice, Bespoke Surgical in New York City, is dedicated to treating and restoring the human butt. Dr. Goldstein speaks with Brian and Judson about his inspiration for pursuing his particular medical specialty, what brings most patients to his office, how he helps people become more comfortable as bottoms, the shame so many people feel about what their butt does or doesn’t do, his guidance for learning to remove that shame, how and why he recommends using toys, the three different types of bottoms, why anal botox is a game-changer and how we should think about protecting the prostate. He also shares his thoughts on aging, what it’s like being a dad to two teenage boys, and talking with kids about sex. To close, Dr. Goldstein helps Brian and Judson respond to a Go Ask Your Dad question submitted by a listener who isn’t able to ejaculate after a medical procedure and wants help finding ways to communicate that to his sexual partners without making it awkward.