45. How to Cooperate More with Your Spouse's Uncooperative Ex

As a stepmom, you probably want to experience reasonable cooperation with your husband's Ex-wife. You want to work as a team for the benefit of the kids. And you might be feeling frustrated if this seems to be impossible — especially when she refuses to acknowledge you or freaks out about your involvement with the kids. You might feel like you're being unfairly judged. Maybe you're even tempted to lash out. But these emotionally charged dynamics are something to ...