44. Why does my husband's Ex think I'm the enemy?

Stepparents — we're betting you came into your blended family with the BEST intentions. You want to thoughtfully care for your step-kid(s) and bring value as you lovingly support then — and your spouse. You really want to contribute good things to their lives! But does it feel like all the good things you do seem to get overlooked by your spouse's Ex? Are you often the target of harsh criticism? …or, have they even gone so far as to try and turn the kids against you?&...