41. Are you unintentionally putting your kids in the middle?

You want your kids to experience freedom from stress and concern as they move between their two homes. You want them to be able to love both of their parents — without feeling like there are strings attached. To make sure that's what your kids experience, you're probably very careful about the way you talk about your Ex when the kids are around… …but are you sure you're not unintentionally putting them in the middle, even in subtle ways? It can be tough to know when and what to say abou...