From Restraint to Reward: What to Add When You Drink Less

If you’ve ever said, “I deserve a drink,” that thought may feel small, but it reflects something deeper — a powerful belief that alcohol is your reward.In this episode, Molly explores Alcohol Core Belief #4: Alcohol is my reward, and how this unconscious narrative can quietly fuel your desire to drink. The episode offers a new way forward — not through willpower or restriction, but by intentionally creating new, satisfying reward rituals.You’ll learn:Why the brain links alcohol with reward — and what to do about itHow removing alcohol without adding new sources of pleasure leads to resistanceThe importance of building emotional reward systems that reinforce the habit of drinking lessWhy this work isn’t about deprivation, but about creating lasting satisfaction and peaceTopics and TakeawaysHow “reward thinking” fuels the desire to drinkThe role of dopamine and learned associationsHow to create alcohol-free rewards that actually feel goodWhat to do instead of white-knuckling your way through dry daysThe mindset shift from “restriction” to “reinforcement”Resources MentionedAlcohol Core Beliefs Episodes: Episode 158: https://pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/12f5397f/5d182193.mp3 Episode 159:https://pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/eda56e8a/ac4e075a.mp3Episode 160: https://pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/0bc07446/a0266a75.mp3Episode 161: https://pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/e62c3a01/cdd8df70.mp3Episode 163: https://pdst.fm/e/dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/media.transistor.fm/bb7c0709/5c68cc4e.mp3 Rewards Rewired WorksheetLow risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:Healthy men under 65:No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★